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You’ve probably heard of “double texting” when you’re chatting with a crush or S.O., but how do you know if you’re doing it in your messages? Should you send a double text or try to avoid it? If you're wondering what double texting is and whether it's a good idea or not, we've got you covered! Keep reading to learn all about double texting and the "rules" you should follow.
This article is based on an interview with our relationship expert, Joshua Pompey. Check out the full interview here.
Double Texting Meaning
Double texting is when you send a second text before getting a response to your first one. In new relationships, double texting isn’t usually recommended as it can come off as clingy or pushy. Try to wait 1-2 days for the person to respond before texting them again.
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If you haven’t heard back from someone within a few days or a week, put your energy into other people who are eager to hold conversations with you.Thanks
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-freedom-change/201808/why-attachment-styles-and-texting-dont-always-mix
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/me-we/201909/the-do-s-and-don-ts-texting-in-new-relationship
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/202402/signs-that-show-whether-someone-is-interested-in-you
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/six_tips_for_reading_emotions_in_text_messages
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/me-we/201909/the-do-s-and-don-ts-texting-in-new-relationship