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It can feel totally gut-wrenching when your crush likes you… but they also like someone else. So what do you do when you’re stuck in a love triangle? We’ll walk you through how to handle your feelings and convince your crush that you’re the right person for them.
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QuestionHow do you test a girl to see if she likes you?Courtney QuinlanCourtney Quinlan is a Matchmaker and Dating Coach and the Owner of Midwest Matchmaking. With over 15 years of experience, she specializes in finding individuals a compatible partner, providing guidance throughout the dating process, and crafting events for singles in the Midwest. Courtney holds a BS in Broadcast Journalism from The University of Nebraska at Omaha.
Matchmaker & Dating CoachJust be direct! If you suspect that she's interested, just say, "Hey, I'm interested in you. Do you have feelings for me or not?" Rather than playing guessing games, be upfront and don't beat around the bush.
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- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/crushes.html
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- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
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- ↑ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/self-esteem/tips-to-improve-your-self-esteem/
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-get-over-a-crush
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201409/how-stop-comparing-yourself-others-and-feel-happier
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/teens/body-image.html
- ↑ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/types-of-mental-health-problems/self-esteem/tips-to-improve-your-self-esteem/
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/crushes.html
- ↑ Courtney Quinlan. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 27 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.seventeen.com/love/dating-advice/a25363090/how-to-get-your-crush-to-like-you/
- ↑ Courtney Quinlan. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 27 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.teenvogue.com/story/how-to-get-over-a-crush
- ↑ Courtney Quinlan. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 27 August 2021.
- ↑ Courtney Quinlan. Matchmaker & Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 27 August 2021.
- ↑ https://kidshealth.org/en/kids/crushes.html
- ↑ https://www.joinonelove.org/learn/what-to-do-when-your-crush-doesnt-like-you-back/
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