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Mysterious people are attractive because human beings are naturally curious. The more dynamic and curious you seem, the more people will want to hang out with you to learn more. When you allow people’s imaginations to fill in the gaps about you, they’ll be drawn in to see if their assumptions prove to be correct. We’ll show you how so that you can pull the guy or gal of your dreams (or even just make more friends).
Cultivating a Mysterious and Attractive Vibe
- Connect with people by making eye contact, smiling, and asking them questions about themselves.
- Better yourself by learning as much as you can and pursuing things you care about to pique the interest of others.
- Avoid oversharing and don’t be too available so others find you mysterious.
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QuestionHow can I be mysterious over text with a guy?Nicole MooreNicole Moore is a Love and Relationship Coach and the Founder and CEO of Love Works Method, a private coaching and digital course service for women looking to find the right partner. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in body language and helping others take control of their dating life, attract a partner, and build a strong relationship. Nicole has been featured in numerous publications such as Cosmopolitan, Forbes, and USA Today. She also hosts Love Works with Nicole Moore, a podcast for modern women wanting love, dating, and relationship advice. Nicole holds a BA in Public Relations and Spanish from Syracuse University and a Certificate in Personal Coaching from New York University.
Love & Relationship CoachBring up short and attention provoking things to a guy and then simply vanish for a while. For instance, text him something like "Hi, I saw you in my dream last night and it was a good one" and leave him wondering what happened in that dream. The fact that you don’t share more is going to make you seem so cool and mysterious. -
QuestionI think that when a man is mysterious, it drives me crazy. How can I not feel like a creep when I try to find out more?Community AnswerBe subtle when you're asking. You can also act mysterious yourself to make him want to know more about you. If being mysterious doesn’t work out for you, try being more seductive. You can get anything out of a guy by being seductive.
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- ↑ http://en.amerikanki.com/simple-ways-intrigue-man-mysterious-him/
- ↑ http://www.dating-relationship-advice-for-women.com/be-mysterious/
- ↑ http://www.dating-relationship-advice-for-women.com/be-mysterious/
- ↑ http://psychologia.co/how-to-be-mysterious/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/spycatcher/201202/cool-body-language
- ↑ http://www.uncommonhelp.me/articles/how-to-be-more-attractive/
- ↑ http://www.wealthylovelife.com/being-mysterious.html
- ↑ https://www.nytimes.com/2000/10/01/nyregion/urban-tactics-those-clothes-so-mysterious-so-powerful-so-dark.html
- ↑ https://www.fastcompany.com/3016689/10-paradoxical-traits-of-creative-people
About This Article
The best way to be mysterious in order to attract people is to leave them with unanswered questions about yourself. Ask questions about others rather than speaking at length about yourself. Be unavailable sometimes, like by declining invitations occasionally or letting people’s calls go to voicemail. Show that you are unpredictable by changing up your routine and planning creative outings. Read on to find out more about how to reciprocate someone’s interest while maintaining your mystery!