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It’s all fine and well to be nice and shy, but if you want to be sassy, you’ve come to the right place! Saucy, vivacious, bold—all enviable qualities that will ensure you stand out from a crowd. Instead of going with the flow, you create it. Want to cultivate that spicy, unstoppable attitude yourself? Keep reading for our tips, including advice from image consultant Sheila A. Anderson, for how to become a sassier, more confident you!
Sassy 101
- Embrace your sassy side by speaking your mind—but do it playfully and with a smile!
- Try to be confident, but not cocky. Be unapologetically you, even if other people don’t understand.
- Have fun! Don’t stand shyly off to the side at a party—join in the excitement!
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There will always be a few people who will think of you as rude, even if you’re simply being confident or direct! Don't let it get to you or spoil your sass.Thanks
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Don't overdo it, or you might be thought rude or a bit of a diva!Thanks
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Some people might get jealous and spread bad rumors about you, but don't let it bring you down. Sassy people don't care about what people think; they just want to have fun!Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/cheeky
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-happiness/202201/5-ways-be-more-confident
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/how-to-be-funny/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-happiness-project/200911/eight-tips-feeling-more-energetic
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/sapient-nature/201603/how-not-worry-about-what-others-think-you
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201311/we-all-need-role-models-motivate-and-inspire-us
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-naked-creative/202209/wearing-our-feelings-how-what-we-wear-affects-us
- ↑ https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/how_fear_hurts_us
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/happiness-in-world/201004/trying-new-things
About This Article
To be sassy, try to think of quick comebacks whenever someone says something that might be rude, and deliver your statements with confidence. Practice saying more risque or brash statements to give them a little attitude. Make sure your statements are funny, not offensive or rude, and keep your quips lighthearted. Be direct and honest with others, but in a funny way that doesn’t make your comment seem mean! For tips on looking and acting like a sassy person, read on!
Reader Success Stories
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"I used to come across as rude when trying to be sassy and sarcastic. This article showed me how to walk that fine line by being cheeky instead — poking fun while still smiling and keeping things lighthearted. Now, my sassy remarks make people laugh rather than feel insulted."..." more