I Keep Hearing "Rizz" Everywhere. What Does It Mean?

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Get familiar with this super popular Gen-Z slang

Co-authored by Caroline Heiderscheit

Last Updated: December 5, 2024 Fact Checked

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Meaning of “Rizz”

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Examples of “Rizz”

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How to Use "Rizz"

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You've seen "rizz" plastered all over TikTok, you've heard your friends use it constantly, and still, you have no clue what it means. You're not alone there! The term "rizz" rose in popularity super quickly, and suddenly, it seems like everyone's in on the secret. By the end of this article, you will be too—we're walking through it's definition and tons of examples below. Ready to rizz? Let's dive in.

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Meaning of “Rizz”

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Rizz refers to a person’s ability to attract someone or flirt. Generally, you’d say someone “has rizz” if they’re able to make it happen romantically with someone, or many people, super easily. They’re great at hitting on people, seducing people, and just generally, they come off as attractive and suave.^{[1]
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- Usually, someone talks with “rizz,” but a person can also have “unspoken rizz,” or a silent charm. Usually, silent rizz is about body language, confidence, or looks.
- Sometimes, rizz can be about two people’s chemistry instead of an individual's ability to spit game. So if two people flirt constantly and have great banter, someone might say: "Woah, those two have rizz."
- Fun fact: "rizz" originally was used as a shortened version of the word "charisma."

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wikiHow Quiz: Do I Have Rizz?

What does it mean to have a lot of rizz? “Rizz” is short for “charisma,” and it basically measures your charm and appeal—especially when it comes to flirting. So, how much rizz do you have right now? Are you a natural at chatting people up, or does your rizz game need a little work? Answer a few simple questions and find out!

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What do you absolutely need to have rizz?

Confidence.

Witty one-liners.

Money.

Self-love.

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Examples of “Rizz”

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Someone who gets a stranger’s number on a night out. When someone successfully hits on someone else, there’s a good chance that they have rizz. Something about their approach was attractive enough to win over another person—whether it was a pick-up line, a compliment, or just confident, direct question: “So, can I have your number?”^{[2]
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- Other examples of “rizz” would be if someone successfully hooked up with their crush or asked someone on a date.
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Someone who everyone has a crush on. If someone is the object of everyone’s affection, then they probably have rizz. There’s something about them that just pulls other people in, whether it’s their hair, their charm, or their style. In this case, rizz isn't something you can observe, it's self-evident. Because they attract so many people, they must have rizz.
- Usually, this is an example of unspoken rizz. Maybe they're not a smooth talker and they're not super flirty. But still, they seem irresistible to others, so then their rizz is mysterious, subtle, and unspoken.^{[3]
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Someone who talks with charm and flirts confidently. Sometimes, rizz isn't about results. It's more about how a person presents themselves. You know those people who are just naturally confident flirters and smooth talkers? Their pick up lines come out smoothly, they're bold, and they don't get nervous around their crushes...That's rizz.
- “Hey girl, are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only ten I see.”
- “There are a lot of hot guys in here, but I can’t take my eyes off of you.”
- “What do I have to do to get a date with you? You tell me, and I’ll make it happen."
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Two people who have tons of chemistry. You know when two people just have a spicy, exciting rapport? There’s a vibe between them for sure, but maybe they haven’t acted on it yet. It could be that they flirt all the time, or they have amazing banter, or it’s something that you can’t quite put your fingers on. But one thing’s for sure: there’s some sort of romantic connection there.
- “Dante and Beth have insane rizz. I don’t understand why they don’t just date already.”
- “I know that Morgan and Leslie act like they hate each other, but I feel like secretly, they have rizz.”
- “Question: do you think that Marisol and I have rizz? I can’t tell…”

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How to Use "Rizz"

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Compliment a suave friend. Did your pal just pull someone super hot? Do they always seem to make a great impression when they’re flirting? They might have certifiable rizz. Make their day and let them know so that they never doubt their romantic expertise:
- “Bro, I feel like you have so much rizz. Everybody seems to have a crush on you.”
- “How do you always get the hottest guys? You’re like the Rizzard of Oz.”
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Praise someone's smooth behavior. Maybe your friend isn’t the smoothest person on the planet, but nonetheless, they just did something super suave. Whether it was a quick wink or a great pickup line, don’t let their rizz go unnoticed! Throw them a compliment to let them know you admire their charm:
- “Woah, I see you! That was some serious rizz you just showed there.”
- “Did you seriously just get that guy’s number? I’m in awe! Nice rizz, girl.”
- You can also use the word rizz to make fun of a failed flirting attempt, but just remember to keep it kind: "Uh oh, that was not your best work. You have no rizz!"
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Tell two people that they have chemistry. When you catch two people flirting or feel like someone should ask their friend out, let them know that the rizz is strong. When you explain that you noticed their romantic vibe, you might even convince them to make it official!
- “Okay, I have to say it. You two have total rizz.”
- “I see you two flirting all day…you can’t fool me. I know there’s rizz here.”

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How do I rizz up a girl I just met?

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WikiMountainCat42

I keep seeing this beautiful girl at a cafe I study at, and I really want to talk to her. But I feel so awkward. What do I do? How do I get her t... Read More

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John Keegan
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Great question. The first thing to do is to always go back to step one, which is your own mindset and way of being. For you to approach her in th... Read More

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WikiMongooseChaser121

Fully agree on the eye contact thing. Makes it so much easier to break the ice and then you’re already halfway to starting a conversation. If s... Read More

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