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Have you ever met a guy that you want to be friends with but aren’t sure what to say to hit it off? We know it feels a little tough to make a new friend over text, but it’s such a convenient way to stay in touch and build a lifelong bond. We’ll start with a few easy ways to get you talking and move on to some things you can say to make your friendship even stronger!
Steps
Expert Q&A
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QuestionHow do you connect with someone over text?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachTry to find something about their interests and passions. Then share your ideas about that topic. For instance, there may be a Netflix show that you both like. You can chat about it. If you like, you can share some inspirational writing or something funny on Instagram. Or you can text them about your hobbies such as photography or painting. -
QuestionHow can I have a successful long-distance friendship?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachMake the other person feel that you are fulfilling their needs despite the distance between you. But do not smother them by expecting them to answer your calls all the time. Both of you should feel that you are building something together and there is something in the future for you. -
QuestionHow can you make your virtual friendship enjoyable?John KeeganJohn Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health.
Dating CoachYou can use the zoom or your phone to spend quality time together. You can decide a time when you can have fun. Both of you can watch a Netflix show, read poetry, or even have dinner at the same time.
Tips
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Friendships take time to build up, so don’t get discouraged if you aren’t clicking right away. Invest your time and energy into the friendship so it’s fulfilling for both of you.[20]Thanks
Warnings
- Avoid messaging multiple times in a row if the guy doesn’t respond since it could seem needy.[21]Thanks
References
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ https://www.regain.us/advice/chat/is-it-okay-to-send-goodnight-texts-to-her-if-youre-not-in-a-relationship/
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
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- ↑ https://www.girlslife.com/crushes/dating/19223/8-tips-to-snag-a-guy-friend
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201907/how-sharing-rare-interests-sparks-unique-attraction
- ↑ https://socialpronow.com/blog/become-friends-text/
- ↑ https://socialpronow.com/blog/become-friends-text/
- ↑ https://www.regain.us/advice/chat/is-it-okay-to-send-goodnight-texts-to-her-if-youre-not-in-a-relationship/
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ https://www.digitaltrends.com/mobile/best-texting-games/
- ↑ https://www.nbcnews.com/better/lifestyle/why-compliments-make-us-feel-so-good-how-get-better-ncna1062546
- ↑ John Keegan. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 29 July 2021.
- ↑ https://saralaughed.com/best-friend-goals-friends-feel-special/
- ↑ https://socialpronow.com/blog/become-friends-text/
- ↑ https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/how-to-make-friends-online/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/friends#building-new-friendships
- ↑ https://www.uopeople.edu/blog/how-to-make-friends-online/