Are Scorpio and Sagittarius a good match in a relationship?
I'm a Scorpio dating a Sagittarius, and I'd love to hear what yalls history with this pairing is, because we get along great but we definitely clash sometimes and I've never dated a sagittarius so I want to know how compatible they really are. Are they good together?
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In a relationship, a Sagittarius wants somebody who gives them space. If you trust them enough to give them space, they will come closer, if you try to control them or micromanage them in any way, they just can't tolerate it. Sagittarius also loves adventure and excitement. They like being outdoors, they love movement. They love action. They don't do well with someone who's very stagnant or set in their ways. They aren't after stability, they want adventure and excitement. To keep your Sagittarius happy, plan outdoor activities, go to rock concerts. They're the rock stars of the zodiac. They're very fiery and dynamic, so they want that in a partner.
Scorpios, meanwhile, are always looking for someone to obsess over. They like to test their partner's loyalty and play hard to get, which Sagittarius may not go for. Scorpio is also a sign of sexualities, so if they're not sensing their partner has sexual interest in them, then they would lose interest. So a Sagittarius would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy in some way with a Scorpio. Scorpios also need depth: if you're very shallow, it won't work. They like intensity and they like passion. They need to feel engaged and enthralled with someone, otherwise they're not going to have interest.
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Scorpios, meanwhile, are always looking for someone to obsess over. They like to test their partner's loyalty and play hard to get, which Sagittarius may not go for. Scorpio is also a sign of sexualities, so if they're not sensing their partner has sexual interest in them, then they would lose interest. So a Sagittarius would definitely need to engage in sex or intimacy in some way with a Scorpio. Scorpios also need depth: if you're very shallow, it won't work. They like intensity and they like passion. They need to feel engaged and enthralled with someone, otherwise they're not going to have interest.
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When I first started dating my Sagittarius husband, his directness hurt me. He is a very straightforward person and when he would make certain comments, my feelings could not take it. But now, I've come to learn that that's just how he communicates. When I look past the bluntness and think about his actual message, I can feel how much he loves me.
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I'm a Sagittarius and I'm much more spontaneous than my Scorpio girlfriend. I love going on adventures and trying new things, while she's more comfortable sticking to what she knows. It was tricky trying to get this to work at first, because I was getting restless doing the same things over and over. After taking her on a few spontaneous adventures with me, she realized that she did actually enjoy a surprise here and there. Things are great now!
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I've never had such deep conversations with another person before! It delighted me to discover that Scorpios and Sagittariuses make for excellent conversation partners. My parter and I go on long walks and talks together, and they're my favorite kind of date nights. We talk about anything and everything, and I really appreciate the perspective that she brings to our chats.
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