What are some flirty questions I can ask a girl?
I'm really into this girl and we chat for hours over text. She's so cool and asks great questions, but I feel like when it's my turn to come up with something I have no idea what to ask. I want to keep her around and interested, but I'm like out of things to say so I need some suggestions. Any way to show off some rizz and keep our convo going?
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A question I love to ask is: "If you could travel anywhere, where would it be?" This is just basic, but it's always fun because you really get to connect with the person you're flirting with on a deeper level. So like, if you could go on a romantic destination with someone special, where would it be? That would be a fun, flirty one.
Another fun question would be, "What were you like as a little kid? Were you good? Were you bad? Were you always causing trouble?" This kind of thing would be a simple question where you're really getting to know them. So this is a little deeper as you're getting to know someone on a connection level.
Other fun, flirty questions are simple things like "What's your rising sign? What does it mean?" You could talk about spiritual stuff on a light level like this, but avoid bringing up any questions on politics that could bring the mood down.
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Another fun question would be, "What were you like as a little kid? Were you good? Were you bad? Were you always causing trouble?" This kind of thing would be a simple question where you're really getting to know them. So this is a little deeper as you're getting to know someone on a connection level.
Other fun, flirty questions are simple things like "What's your rising sign? What does it mean?" You could talk about spiritual stuff on a light level like this, but avoid bringing up any questions on politics that could bring the mood down.
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A tip for carrying conversations in a way that lets you learn more about the other person and allows you to flirt with them is pairing compliments with questions. For example, a message like "I'm so impressed by how many languages you know! How did you learn them?" shows that you appreciate her intellect and hard work, and are interested in hearing more about her journey to get to where she is.
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Throwing in some light teasing with open-ended questions can help create a flirty vibe as you get to know her. You could say something like "Any other secrets you're hiding from me besides the fact that you like pineapple on pizza?" or "What else do you like to do with your time besides taking a million pictures of your cat?" I like doing this because it makes the conversation feel more playful. By including a fact about her, I'm also letting her know that I've been paying attention to what she's been sharing.
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Try some of these questions to get to know a girl better! Your rizz will come through in the way that you respond to her answers. Just be genuinely interested in getting to know her better and reply thoughtfully with specific comments and follow-up questions and you'lll be great. Good luck!
- What's the best compliment you've ever received? Is there something you wish you were complimented on more?
- What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?
- What's something coming up that you're looking forward to?
- Do you have a bucket list? What's on it?
- What is something you're working on in your life right now?
- If you had an extra day of the week every week that you could spend however you wanted, what would you do during it?
- What's something about yourself that you don't often get a chance to share with others?
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- What's the best compliment you've ever received? Is there something you wish you were complimented on more?
- What's the most adventurous thing you've ever done?
- What's something coming up that you're looking forward to?
- Do you have a bucket list? What's on it?
- What is something you're working on in your life right now?
- If you had an extra day of the week every week that you could spend however you wanted, what would you do during it?
- What's something about yourself that you don't often get a chance to share with others?
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