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“I appreciate you” is always a nice thing to hear—but it’s not always clear what a guy means when he says it. Does he like you as more than a friend? Is he just showing he cares for you in a platonic way? There are a lot of factors to consider, such as your relationship with him and how he behaves around other people. Check out our guide to figuring out what he means when he says “I appreciate you,” so you’ll know exactly how to respond.
Things You Should Know
- To understand what he means by "I appreciate you," consider the context. Did you do something nice for him? Does he know you're feeling down and want to cheer you up?
- Study his behavior in other contexts to determine if he likes you as more than a friend. If he talks to you often or displays shy body language, he could be interested in you.
- Interpret his “I appreciate you” as platonic if he regularly compliments other people or displays similar body language around you as others.
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