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If you’re getting serious with your boyfriend, you may be more focused on impressing his parents than usual, and that’s totally normal! But how do you know if they like you? Can you tell if they think you’re a good match for their son? We talked to relationship coach Shana Tibi to bring you the surefire ways you can tell if your boyfriend’s parents like you. Keep reading to learn how to know if your boyfriend's parents like you (and what to do if they don’t).
Signs Your Boyfriend’s Parents Like You
- They compliment you often.
- They ask you questions about yourself.
- They initiate conversations with you.
- They invite you to family events.
- They ask for your opinions.
- They act excited to see you.
- They remember things about you.
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QuestionHow do you know if your boyfriend's mom hates you?Shana TibiShana Tibi is a Certified Professional Matchmaker, Date and Relationship Coach, and the Founder of Curated Connections, a matchmaking service for single professionals. Shana specializes in understanding core values and personal preferences to curate dates. She holds a BA in Peace Studies and Conflict Resolution from Prescott College and an MSW in Social Work from California State University, Hayward. She is an active member of the Global Love Institute where she earned her matchmaking certifications.
Certified Professional MatchmakerCheck out her body language! Typically, if you feel comfortable, she'll also feel comfortable—it's like a mirror. If you're feeling uncomfortable and awkward, you might be picking up uncomfortable vibes from her as well.
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Tibi reminds you to remember that “every parent acts different.”[15] No parent or relationship is the same, so follow your heart and do what’s best for you.Thanks
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If you don’t think your boyfriend’s parents like you, give it a little time. You can strengthen your relationship by asking them questions, taking an interest in their lives, and visiting them more often.Thanks
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evidence-based-living/202109/the-psychology-compliments-nice-word-goes-long-way
- ↑ https://www.marthastewart.com/7898062/signs-your-mother-in-law-likes-you
- ↑ https://harappa.education/harappa-diaries/positive-body-language-with-examples/
- ↑ https://www.marthastewart.com/7898062/signs-your-mother-in-law-likes-you
- ↑ https://www.powerofpositivity.com/friend-behaviors-someone-befriending-you/
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://hbr.org/2022/12/when-someone-asks-your-opinion-give-it
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ http://changingminds.org/techniques/body/open_body.htm
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
- ↑ https://www.powerofpositivity.com/friend-behaviors-someone-befriending-you/
- ↑ https://www.marthastewart.com/7898062/signs-your-mother-in-law-likes-you
- ↑ https://www.marthastewart.com/7898062/signs-your-mother-in-law-likes-you
- ↑ https://www.focusonthefamily.com/marriage/12-questions-every-father-should-ask-his-future-son-in-law/
- ↑ Shana Tibi. Certified Professional Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.