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How do you know if a guy likes you secretly?

Joshua Pompey
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Joshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.

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Number one, body language is key when somebody is looking at you. If they're smiling a lot and they're making eye contact, it's a good sign they like you. Also, look out for little touches on the arm, on the elbow, or on the back while you're talking. Those are tremendous signs of interest, so look out for any physical touches that you're receiving.

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What if he is too scared to ask you out?

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Try asking him out yourself! The worst that could happen is he could say no.

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I asked my crush out for coffee with other friends, and he turned me down. However, the other day when we were talking, he pulled my arm back towards him. What does that mean?

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He may be interested but nervous or not ready. In addition, he may want individual time with you instead of time with other friends. Try being his friend for a bit to see if he gives you any other flirty suggestions. If so, ask him out for coffee--just you two.

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What if you're too scared to ask him out?

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Asking someone out takes courage and confidence. If you're nervous, it's okay! Know that it's perfectly normal to feel that way. Give yourself a pep talk or listen to uplifting music to boost your confidence.

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What should I do if I think he likes another girl?

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First, don't take it personally if he seems interested in someone else. He may, or he may not, depending on the circumstances. Try building a friendship first to get to know him better. Then, pay attention to how he interacts with you versus how he seems around her.

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What if one of your friends likes him too?

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This can get tricky. It's best to be up front and honest with your friend so there are no hard feelings. Tell your friend that you like him and that you think you are going to ask him out. They may mention that they like him too, or maybe they'll get the hint that they should back off.

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