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Compliments in bed can make guys feel confident, empowered, and excited—just like they do for you. But you may be wondering, what's the perfect comment to turn him on and capture his heart? Luckily, it's way easier than you'd think. We're here to help you learn all of the things guys secretly want to hear between the sheets. For a complete guide on how to give the perfect compliment during sex, read on.

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"You’re so hot."

  1. Explain how attracted you are to him, and you’ll boost his confidence instantly. Just like you, he wants to hear that when you’re looking at him, you’re thinking about his killer good looks.[1]
    • “I’m so attracted to you. You have no idea.”
    • “Every time I look at you, I can’t believe how hot you are.”
    • "I think you’re so sexy.”
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"You’re so sexy from this angle."

  1. Sex allows you to see your guy in a new way, so let him know that in bed especially, you think he’s an absolute ten. Mention the angle, what he’s doing, or his expression to make him feel even more aroused and in the moment with you.[2]
    • “You look so hot while you’re doing that…”
    • Look him in the eyes and tell him you love how his face looks: “I love how you look right now. You’re really making me hot.”
    • “I love the way you look when you’re turned on. With your cheeks flushed and your messy hair…”
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"You’ve got incredible arms."

  1. Just like you, he’ll love hearing that you noticed his gains at the gym, his bright eyes, or his amazing jawline. Comment on something specific and not only will your compliment feel extra thoughtful, but you’ll make him realize that having you around is an instant confidence boost.[3]
    • “Your hair and beard look so good at that length, wow.”
    • “I love your broad shoulders. They really turn me on.”
    • “Your eyes are totally mesmerizing. They put me in a trance.”[4]
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"You're so good at that..."

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"Your touch feels amazing."

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"You made me feel so good—I want to return the favor."

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"I’ve been fantasizing about this all day."

  1. your super hot inner-dialogue. He’s probably always wondering what you’re thinking, what you’re feeling, and what you want. Tell him that throughout the day, you have tons of NSFW thoughts about your alone time with him. This will do more than just flatter him, it’ll completely blow his mind.[12]
    • “I’ve been dreaming about your touch since we last saw each other.”
    • “Thinking about us together actually distracts me from my work...”
    • “I’ve been anticipating your touch all week.”
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This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Caroline Heiderscheit. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 191,222 times.
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