This article was written by Julianne Cantarella and by wikiHow staff writer, Aimee Payne, MFA. Julianne Cantarella is a Dating Coach, Certified Life Coach, Licensed Social Worker, and the CEO and President of New Jersey's Matchmaker. With over a decade of experience, she specializes in helping women heal from a heartbreak and create healthy long-term relationships. Julianne created a comprehensive transformational date coaching program From First Date to Soulmate™ that has helped hundreds of women find love. She holds a Bachelor of Social Work (BSW) from Ramapo College of New Jersey and a Master of Social Work (MSW) from Fordham University. Julianne has contributed to numerous media such as Your Tango Online Magazine, 24Seven Wellness Magazine, and Talk of The Town Magazine. She has also been featured as a relationship expert on CBS, iHeartRadio, and PBS “This Emotional Life Project.”
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You’re texting a guy you like, and he starts sending one-word texts, takes forever to respond, or doesn’t respond at all…classic signs of dry texting. While this may mean he’s not super into you, don't assume right away. It might only mean you just have to change up your texting strategy a bit. We’ll walk you through the best texts to send to fix a dry conversation, check his interest, and figure out when to leave the conversation (thanks to expert tips from professional dating coach and licensed social worker, Julianne Cantarella). Read on for a list of ways to respond when a guy sends you a dry text!
Best Ways to Respond to a Dry Texter
- Pinpoint the reason behind his dry texting.
- Restart the conversation by bringing up his interests.
- Use a playful question to fix a texting rut.
- Mention a fun memory to remind him of your connection.
- Send a photo to give you more to talk about.
- Send him a flirty text to see if he’s still interested.
- Check how he feels about texting.
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- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/conversation-starters-topics/
- ↑ https://ggia.berkeley.edu/practice/36_questions_for_increasing_closeness
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/benefits-of-play-for-adults.htm
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/
- ↑ https://www.scienceofpeople.com/text-conversation-starters/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/love-digitally/201806/why-do-we-flirt-text
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/basics/flirting
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6326346/
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/in-the-name-love/202103/what-makes-good-flirt
- ↑ Julianne Cantarella. Dating & Relationship Coach. Expert Interview. 6 August 2021.