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What do you do when an unexpected “Xoxo” shows up in your text messages? Depending on your relationship to the sender, it can be a friendly and platonic gesture, a flirty way to ask for some hugs and kisses from a crush, or a genuine expression of love and longing from a romantic partner. That’s why we’ve put together a comprehensive list of responses to an “Xoxo” text that covers all your bases and takes the guesswork out of replying to virtual “hugs and kisses.”
Responding to “Xoxo”
- Send back “Ooo,” “🤗,” or “Aww” if you only want to be friends.
- Reply with “Xoxo” or “Xx” to your partner, crush, or close friends.
- Respond with “Yuck” or “🤢” to tease your friends.
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If “Xoxo” comes from a friend, family member, or romantic partner, reply however you want! With crushes or acquaintances, consider your relationship and how you feel about them. Then, send a reply that acknowledges their feelings but sets boundaries (if necessary).Thanks
References
- ↑ https://collegeaftermath.com/other/what-does-xoxo-mean/
- ↑ https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/8005c989-3226-435b-b87c-da5ece40fad3
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/compassion-matters/201506/5-ways-build-trust-and-honesty-in-your-relationship
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/pro/exhausted-woman/2017/11/the-art-of-good-communication-texting-etiquette#1