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If you think text messages are all about LOLs and OMGs, you might be wrong! Texting is pretty much a part of everyday life, and that includes relationships. If you’re texting a girl you like, she may try to put you through the wringer to see if you’re worth her time. The good news is you may be able to tell if she’s testing you so you can try to win her over. To help you out, we’ve put together a list of potential ways you can try to figure out if a girl is testing you through texts.
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QuestionHow do you know if a girl isn't interested in you anymore?Joshua PompeyJoshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.
Relationship ExpertTrust your instincts—if it feels like something's off, more often than not, it is. For instance, if they don't text you as much as they did early on, it could be a sign they're thinking of ending things.
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In general, try to avoid reacting negatively to something she texts you. Keep in mind that it could all be a test!Thanks
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