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You’re swiping on a dating app, when one of your matches asks: “What are you looking for in a relationship?” Figuring out how to respond can help you determine if you and your date are compatible or not. In this article, we’ll tell you exactly how to let your date know what you’re looking for in a relationship. We’ll also explain how to figure out if you and your date are compatible, and we'll list some of the qualities you might want to look for in a partner.
Things You Should Know
- Answer clearly, concisely, and honestly. Your response should reflect what is truly important to you.
- Possible things to look for in a relationship include emotional maturity, mutual trust and respect, friendship, physical attraction, and clear communication.
- Ask your date to share what they are looking for as well to determine if the two of you are compatible.
Steps
How Do You Find Out What You Want In a Relationship?
Expert Q&A
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References
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/how-to-be-ok-with-being-single/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-qualities-to-look-for-in-a-life-partner
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/emotional-intelligence-eq.htm
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/pdf/What_Should_I_Look_For_In_A_Partner.pdf
- ↑ https://www.loveisrespect.org/resources/dating-basics-what-should-i-look-for/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/blog/5-qualities-to-look-for-in-a-life-partner
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201404/love-without-friendship-doesnt-last-forever
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/tips-for-finding-lasting-love.htm