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You might think that women are only after tall, attractive men who make a lot of money, but the truth is most women are more interested in a guy's personality and values than they are in superficial things. Confident men who show a willingness to be open and vulnerable are typically the most attractive. Read on to learn about the other characteristics that women prefer when they're looking for a life partner.
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