Stefanie Safran
Dating Coach & Matchmaker
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Co-authored Articles (32)
How to
Ask a Girl Out
''Earn yourself a date with these reader-approved tips'' You're so ready to go on a date with the girl you've been crushing on, but first you have to ask her out. How should you bring it up? What exactly should you say? ...
How to
Answer the "What Do You Like About Me" Question (for Men)
It's important to offer regular compliments to help your relationship grow and stay strong. Mutual attraction is how relationships get started, but it takes work to make them last. If you want to learn how to offer littl...
22 Subtle Ways to Touch Him to Show Affection (or to Turn Him On)
Use physical contact to let a special guy know how you feel Touch is a great way to show a guy you care about him—or to drive him wild! If you want to make a guy fall for you, you have to know how to touch him the righ...
How to Impress a Girl on WhatsApp
Capture her interest, charm her, and get her to text you backBe genuine, confident, and courteous, and you’re bound to make a good impression on any girl you chat with on WhatsApp. But what can you say to a girl on Wha...
How to
Impress a Girl
Do you want to wow that certain girl? Though you can't control how she feels and make her fall in love with you, you can make yourself seem more desirable to her. Here are two methods for impressing a girl: first for a g...
How to
Caress a Woman
Sure, you may feel like you're an expert at kissing a woman or in holding her hand — but how do you truly caress her? Caressing a woman is a way to show her how much you love her, and it doesn't have to be sexual. You ...
How to
Caress
Caresses can be an amazing way to bond, experience pleasure, or enjoy some foreplay. You may have already heard that sensual caressing feels great, but maybe you're stressing out over other unanswered questions. Like, fo...
How to
Ask a Woman on a Date without Making Common Mistakes
Asking a woman out on the first date can be a scary and potentially frightful thing sometimes. You don’t know if you’ll be rejected or if she’ll accept your invitation out. You’ll also be nervous about how you lo...
How to
Impress a Girl when You First Meet
Impressing a girl when you meet her isn't the easiest thing in the world, but it can be done. Start by making yourself as impressive as you can with a nice outfit and practicing what you'll say. When you meet the girl, i...
Is Sex on the First Date a Relationship Killer? Pros and Cons
Ever heard the rule, “Never have sex on the first date”? A lot of people assume that a romp in the bedroom first thing can kill your chances at a relationship, but is that actually true? In this article, we’ll tell...
How to
Invite a Girl to Your Place
So you like a girl, you’ve been on a few dates, and you've organized every outing to the last detail. But if you’re looking to get intimate with her, that won’t happen in the middle of a bar or restaurant—so you...
How to
Get Your Crush (for Boys and Girls)
Having a crush can drive anyone crazy. It may be difficult to initiate conversation with your crush, but by building confidence and being yourself, you can win them over and start a relationship.
21 First Date Tips for Men
Congrats on successfully charming someone into going on a date with you! That’s a huge accomplishment by itself, but now you’ve got to show them a great time to get past that first date—what’s a guy to do? With t...
How to
Kiss in Public
Kissing in public can be fun, but it can make some people uncomfortable. In most places, you're not likely to encounter anything more than a dirty look for too much public affection. Learning what's at stake before kissi...
How to
Be Confident in Your Looks
Having low self-esteem when it comes to your appearance can feel demoralizing and make it harder to focus on enjoying your life. Fortunately, there are things you can do to shut down your inner critic and start feeling m...
How to
Tell Your Crush You Like Him
Admitting your feelings to a crush can be difficult. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone you like them, but it can be so rewarding once you do. By choosing the right time and place and being forward, your crush may...
How to
Date in Middle School
Young romance. If you want to learn to negotiate the tricky dating world that is your local middle school, you can learn a few tricks and tips to make it go as smoothly as possible. You can learn how to ask someone out t...
How to
Get Close to a Girl
Getting close to people is sometimes difficult. It is especially difficult when you want to get close to a girl for romantic reasons. As a result, you need to be very careful, move slowly, act naturally, and respect the ...
How to
Talk About Your Dating History
Whether you’ve been seeing someone for a couple of weeks or a couple of years, discussing your past can be tricky. While it’s important to be honest, it’s also important to consider your new partner’s feelings. ...
How to
Impress a French Girl
Every culture has its own what to do and what not to do's of courtship. What might be considered romantic in one culture could be easily seen as brazen in another. At the end of the day, it comes down to what the individ...