Am I a narcissist?
This discussion is for readers who took the Am I a Narcissist or an Empath Quiz.
This quiz said that I'm "not empathetic". But is it a bad thing to be more focused on myself? Everyone says to take care of yourself first and then take care of the people around you. Where do you draw the line?
You might have a warped perception of your behavior, so asking other people to be honest with you can be helpful for figuring out if you have narcissistic tendencies. For an outside perspective from someone who's more unbiased and completely unrelated to you, you can seek professional help.
I agree 100%. I put myself first, and then I take care of the people around me once I'm good. How is that narcissism?
I think u a mix, which is not a bad thing
I wonder how does one take care of and help others if they can’t do it for themselves ? Doesn’t one need to be healed and in a half decent position to be able to help others ?
Yes it is important to take care of yourself first sometimes. But if what you are doing isn’t so harming others forget it if how you are choosing to take care of yourself is hurting people stop find another way set clear boundaries for yourself but remember to take care of people and be as understanding as you can. :3 have a lovely day
you can be focused on yourself as much as you want wikidugongweaver655.
Being completely unrelated to you and just answering your question- No, focussing on yourself isn't a bad thing. You are who you live with for the most amount of time, so ofc you gotta look after yourself. But I think it becomes a challenge when all that you think about is yourself. Remember that everyone is going through their share of struggles, and its human tendency to wish for someone to be there for you at times like that. Reaching out to people is a way to let them know that you're there for them. You don't have to talk or call every day, because ofc we're all busy in our lives, but just reaching out and telling them they can rely on you when they need you and being there without any expectations is where I draw the line. I am important to me, but they are important to me too.
Don't doubt yourself too much and try opening up to others and feel for them too. Seeing that you asked that question I'm quite positive you're not a narcissist but do try seeking professional help for your wellbeing
Don't doubt yourself too much and try opening up to others and feel for them too. Seeing that you asked that question I'm quite positive you're not a narcissist but do try seeking professional help for your wellbeing
It is true that self care is important, but it must not be confused with self-indulgence. Care for yourself, to better provide those around you. Care, as in to improve your health, moral, and understanding; provide, as in to give for the sake of kind intention rather then the expectation of return. To provide for the well being your family, friends, and all those around you in any way at any scale. It is important to note that when "giving" you must find a way to do so in a healthy and logical manner, that way you are not affected in any negative way.
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