This quiz said my boyfriend and I are incompatible, and I think it's right
This discussion is for readers who took the Compatibility Test.
It hurt when this quiz said I'm incompatible with my boyfriend, but... I think it's right. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and generally it's been good. But I feel like maybe I'm not being myself around him. Like I can't fully open up. Is that normal this early? Should we break up?
it's only been 2 months so I think you could give it more time to see if you find yourself getting more comfortable with him. also, you know yourself the best. do you tend to take time to open up to people or have you been in bad relationships in the past that might make you more cautious about opening up to people? if so, you might just need to give it more time
If you're not being yourself around him then your relationship is being built on a false representation of yourself. You should go ahead and be yourself and if he's the right guy for you he'll still love you
I'd need more information to figure out if you should break up. Is there a reason why you can't fully open up? If it's because he's doing something like verbally abusing you (extreme example), then yeah, you should break up. But if it's because you want to get to know him better before being vulnerable, that's perfectly understandable
Personally, I think if you don't feel like you can truly be you around him, you should try to talk to him about it. If you end feeling more comfortable around him that's great, but if you feel like you can't talk to him and that he would feel different about you then i think it might be the best choice to split up. I understand it will be hard, but you should be with someone you feel like you can be you around, and I really hope you find someone lie that even if it's not him. <3
I personally think you should give it some time and if you still feel like you can't be yourself around him, then you should probably split. I mean if you start to feel more comfortable around him then that is super great and I'd be really happy for you. I mean I'm not you so you do what you think is right this is just what i would do in this situation. <3
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