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If you have the honor of having a wonderful Scorpio woman in your life, you probably want to do everything you can to make her feel loved and cherished, right? Scorpio women are passionate, spontaneous, and loyal, and they’ll bring so many wonderful things to your relationship. In this article, we’ll cover how to plan the perfect date with a Scorpio woman, how to support her physically and emotionally, and what you can do to make sure your relationship stays strong. Keep reading to learn all about what it takes to make a Scorpio feel loved.
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Satisfy a Scorpio's sense of adventure and spontaneous energy by planning dates that focus on trying new experiences and showering her with surprise gifts.
Remain patient and understanding when it comes to her emotions and be respectful when she chooses to keep some things to herself.
Show your commitment by making her and your relationship a priority. Talk about your future goals for your relationship if you’re ready for a long-term relationship.
Try new things together. Expect a Scorpio woman to have a sense of adventure. Thanks to her ruling planet, Mars, a Scorpio woman is full of energy and often needs a lot of stimulation to be happy. She’ll likely always be willing to try new things and go on adventures. She’ll appreciate a date night that pushes her a little bit out of her comfort zone.[1]XResearch source
Take her somewhere she's never been before. If she's an avid hiker, for example, take her on a challenging hike in a new place.
Another option is to find a new hobby to try together. Go horseback riding, try skydiving, or even go sign up for some surfing lessons. The world’s your oyster!
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Plan spontaneous dates. Scorpios are spontaneous by nature. They love adventure and sometimes aren’t too fond of adhering to strict plans and timelines. If you want to entertain a Scorpio woman, take her on an unexpected date. For example, propose the two of you go see a movie on a weeknight or hit up the bars on a random Sunday afternoon. Nothing lets a Scorpio woman know you love her like being able to match her spontaneous energy.[2]XResearch source
Scorpio women also love having a bit of mystery in their lives. If you really want to surprise her, don’t tell her what you’re doing beforehand and keep everything a secret until you get to your destination.
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Have an active sex life. Since their ruling planets are Mars and Pluto, Scorpios tend to be very sexual and passionate by nature. Because of this, sexual experiences with them can be both intense and very fulfilling.[3]XExpert SourceJessica Lanyadoo Astrologer & Psychic MediumExpert Interview. 12 November 2019. If you want to show a Scorpio woman how much you love her, put effort into having an active sex life. Scorpio women are often fueled by passion and intimacy, so the times when you’re intimate are a great opportunity to show her just how passionate you feel about her.[4]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview. 13 January 2022.
Take dating a Scorpio as a chance to explore your own sexual preferences. A Scorpio woman will be eager to spice things up in the bedroom, so go in with an open mind.
To spice things up outside of the bedroom, send some saucy texts during the day to keep her on her toes.
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Buy her presents that she’ll find meaningful. Anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays are great times to shower your special Scorpio woman with gifts. However, practice a bit of caution when you go out shopping. Scorpios value gifts that have meaning and lots of thought put behind them, not just whatever’s popular nowadays. Think about something that caters to her interests that she’ll actually use.[5]XResearch source
For example, if your Scorpio woman is an avid reader, get her a subscription to a literary magazine. She’ll appreciate a gift that shows you understand her character.
Making a gift by hand, such as a scrapbook, a cute accessory, or a small decoration, is a great way to show you put time, thought, and effort into your gift.
Since Scorpio women are spontaneous by nature, surprise her with a gift when she least expects it to make her feel extra special.
Be patient and understanding of her emotions. One thing about Scorpios is that they tend to swing between moods rather quickly. Because of this, loving a Scorpio requires patience and understanding on your part. Be willing to listen and support your Scorpio woman when she starts to feel overwhelmed. Do your best to empathize with her and find out where these emotions are coming from.[6]XExpert SourceJessica Lanyadoo Astrologer & Psychic MediumExpert Interview. 12 November 2019.
Scorpios also fall under the “fixed” modality of astrology, meaning that they can be quite stubborn when it comes to keeping their feelings to themselves.
Ask questions like, “Can you explain what you’re feeling?” to give her an opportunity to open up but don’t push her if she’s reluctant to talk about certain things.
In return, open up to her about your own emotions. This is a great way to show a Scorpio woman that it’s okay to be vulnerable sometimes and talk about your feelings.
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Be respectful of her privacy. While Scorpios can be very upfront about their feelings, they also tend to like keeping some things private. The best way you can show a Scorpio woman respect and let her know how much you love her is to respect her privacy and any boundaries that she’s set.[7]XExpert SourceJessica Lanyadoo Astrologer & Psychic MediumExpert Interview. 12 November 2019.
Scorpios tend to be very upfront by nature, so a Scorpio woman will let you know if you're bothering her. If you ask her about something she'd rather not share, she’ll likely say so.
Support her passions and interests. Since their ruling planet is Mars, Scorpios tend to be incredibly passionate people who will do anything to achieve their goals.[9]XResearch source So, they often need a partner who’s willing to support them in their endeavors. If your Scorpio woman is particularly passionate about a hobby, area of study, or job, do what you can to help her and show her you’ve got her back. Be sure to remind her how wonderful she is and boost her self-esteem so she feels confident pursuing her passions.
Avoid interrupting a Scorpio woman while she's at work. A Scorpio who’s an avid reader, for example, might not appreciate you talking to her while she's invested in a book.
Be your Scorpio woman's personal cheerleader. Scorpios usually won’t settle for partners who don’t encourage them to pursue their passions.
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Let her spend some alone time every now and then. As a water sign, Scorpios tend to have lots of thoughts going on in their heads and love to remain a bit of a mystery to the outside world. Because of this, the Scorpio woman in your life might need some alone time every now and then to recharge and just be with herself. They also tend to just be more independent by nature. Respect her wishes and take this time to pursue your own interests or reflect on your relationship.[10]XResearch source
Spending time away from your partner is actually a part of any healthy relationship. Learning to enjoy taking some time to yourself can give both you and your partner valuable opportunities to recharge and come back together with even more passion and energy.
Don’t be offended if you see her having fun without you. A Scorpio's independent nature means she’s able to make her own fun, whether others are present or not.
This isn’t a sign you’re not important to her. This might be her way of telling you that she’s not with you because she relies on you for companionship or comfort but because she genuinely wants to be around you.
Reveal information about yourself gradually. Scorpios like it when their partners are a bit mysterious since they themselves like to have their own secrets and privacy. If you're in love with a Scorpio woman, don’t feel like you have to spill all of your secrets right away. Keeping her guessing will keep her interested and curious about you.[11]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview. 13 January 2022.
Scorpios tend to enjoy power plays, so make her feel like she has to push you a little to get information. While it may feel like you're playing games, Scorpio women may actually enjoy this dynamic.
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Make her and your relationship a priority. When a Scorpio woman decides to be in a relationship, she gives her all and needs a partner who’s willing to do the same. Oftentimes, Scorpio women don’t enjoy just dating casually, so it's important that you prioritize her and your relationship. Set aside time for dates, ask her about her day, and be sure to ask for her opinion to let her know you value her thoughts. A Scorpio woman will be loyal as both a friend and a partner, so reassure her that you’ll be there for the long run.[12]XExpert SourceJessica Lanyadoo Astrologer & Psychic MediumExpert Interview. 12 November 2019.
If you’re ready to dive into a serious, committed relationship, discuss taking some bigger steps, such as taking a trip together or moving in together.
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Stay loyal to her. When Scorpio women fall for someone, they fall hard and put all of their passion into their relationship. Be sure to return her passion in kind and show her that you don’t have eyes for anyone but her. One way to do this is to reassure her with verbal affirmations, such as saying “I love you” every day. If things get a bit rough, always be sure to go back to her and reassure her that you’re not going to leave just because of one argument.[13]XExpert SourceAngel Eyedealism Astrologer & Performance ArtistExpert Interview. 13 January 2022.
Work on communicating with her so that you can resolve any issues or conflicts in a productive way.
Since they’re ruled by Pluto, Scorpio women tend to become very jealous and possessive if they think something is threatening their relationship, so be conscious of your actions and be ready to give her reassurance every now and then.
Listen when she comes to you with a problem and do your best to give genuine advice if she needs it. This will reassure her that you’re there to support her.
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Be accepting of her honesty and constructive criticism. Scorpios can be brutally honest at times and sometimes aren’t afraid to give tough love and tell you how things are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you, though. If anything, she may be telling you these things because she thinks they’ll help you. Don’t let these instances of bluntness get to you too badly. Acknowledge what she’s saying but don’t be too hard on yourself.[14]XResearch source
Remember, Scorpios are loyal and passionate toward partners whose company they genuinely enjoy. She’s likely not trying to hurt you but rather help you to be your best self.
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Scorpio women can be spontaneous and passionate, so it’s important to be adventurous when planning dates and open to understanding her emotions. Try to come up with something new to do for a date, like horseback riding or hiking, since scorpio women typically like trying things they haven’t done before. You should also organize dates at short notice, because scorpios like spontaneity. When you’re choosing a gift for her, think about her passions and remember that scorpios like gifts to have meaning. For example, get her a library subscription if she enjoys reading, or a specific piece of jewelry if she likes a certain design. Remember that scorpio women may express their passions through strong emotions, so it’s important to be open about how you feel in return. If her mood changes suddenly, be understanding and ask questions like “Can you explain why you feel that way?”. For tips on how to keep your relationship strong over time, keep reading!
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Try new things together. Expect a Scorpio woman to have a sense of adventure. Thanks to her ruling planet, Mars, a Scorpio woman is full of energy and often needs a lot of stimulation to be happy. She’ll likely always be willing to try new things and go on adventures. She’ll appreciate a date night that pushes her a little bit out of her comfort zone.[1]
Plan spontaneous dates. Scorpios are spontaneous by nature. They love adventure and sometimes aren’t too fond of adhering to strict plans and timelines. If you want to entertain a Scorpio woman, take her on an unexpected date. For example, propose the two of you go see a movie on a weeknight or hit up the bars on a random Sunday afternoon. Nothing lets a Scorpio woman know you love her like being able to match her spontaneous energy.[2]
Have an active sex life. Since their ruling planets are Mars and Pluto, Scorpios tend to be very sexual and passionate by nature. Because of this, sexual experiences with them can be both intense and very fulfilling.[3] If you want to show a Scorpio woman how much you love her, put effort into having an active sex life. Scorpio women are often fueled by passion and intimacy, so the times when you’re intimate are a great opportunity to show her just how passionate you feel about her.[4]
Buy her presents that she’ll find meaningful. Anniversaries, birthdays, and holidays are great times to shower your special Scorpio woman with gifts. However, practice a bit of caution when you go out shopping. Scorpios value gifts that have meaning and lots of thought put behind them, not just whatever’s popular nowadays. Think about something that caters to her interests that she’ll actually use.[5]
Be patient and understanding of her emotions. One thing about Scorpios is that they tend to swing between moods rather quickly. Because of this, loving a Scorpio requires patience and understanding on your part. Be willing to listen and support your Scorpio woman when she starts to feel overwhelmed. Do your best to empathize with her and find out where these emotions are coming from.[6]
Be respectful of her privacy. While Scorpios can be very upfront about their feelings, they also tend to like keeping some things private. The best way you can show a Scorpio woman respect and let her know how much you love her is to respect her privacy and any boundaries that she’s set.[7]
Support her passions and interests. Since their ruling planet is Mars, Scorpios tend to be incredibly passionate people who will do anything to achieve their goals.[9] So, they often need a partner who’s willing to support them in their endeavors. If your Scorpio woman is particularly passionate about a hobby, area of study, or job, do what you can to help her and show her you’ve got her back. Be sure to remind her how wonderful she is and boost her self-esteem so she feels confident pursuing her passions.
Let her spend some alone time every now and then. As a water sign, Scorpios tend to have lots of thoughts going on in their heads and love to remain a bit of a mystery to the outside world. Because of this, the Scorpio woman in your life might need some alone time every now and then to recharge and just be with herself. They also tend to just be more independent by nature. Respect her wishes and take this time to pursue your own interests or reflect on your relationship.[10]
Reveal information about yourself gradually. Scorpios like it when their partners are a bit mysterious since they themselves like to have their own secrets and privacy. If you're in love with a Scorpio woman, don’t feel like you have to spill all of your secrets right away. Keeping her guessing will keep her interested and curious about you.[11]
Make her and your relationship a priority. When a Scorpio woman decides to be in a relationship, she gives her all and needs a partner who’s willing to do the same. Oftentimes, Scorpio women don’t enjoy just dating casually, so it's important that you prioritize her and your relationship. Set aside time for dates, ask her about her day, and be sure to ask for her opinion to let her know you value her thoughts. A Scorpio woman will be loyal as both a friend and a partner, so reassure her that you’ll be there for the long run.[12]
Stay loyal to her. When Scorpio women fall for someone, they fall hard and put all of their passion into their relationship. Be sure to return her passion in kind and show her that you don’t have eyes for anyone but her. One way to do this is to reassure her with verbal affirmations, such as saying “I love you” every day. If things get a bit rough, always be sure to go back to her and reassure her that you’re not going to leave just because of one argument.[13]
Be accepting of her honesty and constructive criticism. Scorpios can be brutally honest at times and sometimes aren’t afraid to give tough love and tell you how things are. This doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you, though. If anything, she may be telling you these things because she thinks they’ll help you. Don’t let these instances of bluntness get to you too badly. Acknowledge what she’s saying but don’t be too hard on yourself.[14]
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