This article was co-authored by Jay Reid, LPCC and by wikiHow staff writer, Dev Murphy, MA. Jay Reid is a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC) in private practice in San Francisco, CA. He specializes in helping clients who have survived a narcissistic parent or partner. Treatment focuses upon helping clients identify and challenge self-diminishing beliefs as a result of narcissistic abuse. Jay holds a BA in Psychology from the University of Pennsylvania and an MS in Clinical Psychology from Penn State University.
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If you want to attract someone who’s a little on the vain side, we're here to help you reel them in. Keep in mind that not everyone who craves admiration or who holds a high opinion of themselves has clinical Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), and only a therapist can diagnose NPD. That said, the route to charm someone with narcissistic tendencies involves appealing to their ego. In this article, we’ll walk you through how to act and what to say to make them utterly obsessed with you.
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