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You can’t pour from an empty cup, so it’s time to put yourself first. Putting yourself first means taking time for self-care, enforcing your boundaries, and treating yourself with kindness. Your needs are just as important as everyone else’s, so it’s not selfish to prioritize yourself sometimes. We’re here to help you start taking great care of yourself by putting yourself first.
This article is based on an interview with our certified life coach, Sydney Axelrod, owner of Sydney Axelrod LLC. Check out the full interview here.
Things You Should Know
- Take time for yourself so you can rest, practice self-care, or pursue a hobby.
- Ask for help when you need it, and say “no” when something isn’t right for you.
- Be compassionate toward yourself and give yourself permission to do what’s right for you.
Steps
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Talk to your family and friends about needing to put yourself first sometimes.Thanks
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Talk to a therapist if you’re struggling to put yourself first. You can attend therapy appointments online through BetterHelp.Thanks
References
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/taking-time-yourself
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/tracking-wonder/202002/4-tips-effectively-ask-help-and-get-yes
- ↑ https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/relaxation/relaxation-tips/
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/stress/quick-stress-relief.htm
- ↑ https://mhanational.org/taking-time-yourself
- ↑ https://www.uaex.uada.edu/life-skills-wellness/extension-homemakers/Hobbies_LessonGuide.pdf
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/mental-health/gratitude.htm
- ↑ https://health.clevelandclinic.org/eating-habits-and-the-psychology-of-food
- ↑ https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/eat-well/how-to-eat-a-balanced-diet/eight-tips-for-healthy-eating/
- ↑ https://www.heart.org/en/healthy-living/fitness/fitness-basics/aha-recs-for-physical-activity-in-adults
- ↑ https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/17906-meditation
- ↑ https://www.apa.org/monitor/2016/09/ce-corner
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-wise-brain/201701/trust-yourself
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/your-emotional-meter/201711/its-never-too-late-to-put-yourself-first
- ↑ https://www.urmc.rochester.edu/encyclopedia/content.aspx?ContentTypeID=1&ContentID=4552
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