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Since you’re around your coworkers so much, you often build up a fun rapport with most of them. But differentiating between them being nice and them being flirty can be tough, especially in the workplace. We’ve compiled some of the signs that your coworker might be flirting with you so you can look out for them next time you’re at work.

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They always take a lunch break with you.

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  1. If you notice that your coworker always makes it a priority to take breaks with you, they probably like you a little more than as a friend. This is especially true if they offer to take you out or buy you lunch a lot, too.[1]
    • There’s a reason your coworker likes talking to you when you’re not working! It’s easier to chat and make conversation when you both aren’t busy.
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They always stop by for a chat.

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They compliment you, but no one else.

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  1. If you notice that they tend to reserve compliments for you and you alone, they probably have a little crush on you.[4] Keep in mind, though, that if they compliment everyone, they might just be a nice person.
    • Pay attention to how your coworker acts around other people. If you see a difference between your interactions and everyone else’s, that’s a big sign that they like you.
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They lean in toward you when you chat.

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They seem jealous of your romantic endeavors.

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They always give you attention in group settings.

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Examples of What to Say if a Coworker is Flirting with You and You'd Like Them to Stop

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Hey everyone! I would really love some help figuring out how to tell if someone is flirting with me, especially when it comes to reading body lan... Read More
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John Keegan
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Examples of flirting would be lots of eye contact and smiling, being curious about your relationship status, and specifically asking to do someth... Read More
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Totally agree with all of that. Also, ask yourself these two questions: are they going out of their way to be flirty/friendly/interact with you?... Read More

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This article was co-authored by John Keegan and by wikiHow staff writer, Hannah Madden. John Keegan is a Dating Coach and motivational speaker based in New York City. With over 10 years of professional experience, he runs The Awakened Lifestyle, where he uses his expertise in dating, attraction, and social dynamics to help people find love. He teaches and holds dating workshops internationally, from Los Angeles to London and from Rio de Janeiro to Prague. His work has been featured in the New York Times, Humans of New York, and Men's Health. This article has been viewed 316,492 times.
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