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How many different family structures are there, and is any one type considered “the norm”? We’re here to tell you everything you need to know. “Family structure” describes the relationships between people living in a household who consider each other family. There are several types of family structures, from the traditional nuclear family to nontraditional (but increasingly common) single-parent or same-sex families. Here, we’ll help you understand the potential pros and cons of each and what qualities make them special. Ready to learn more? Then read on!
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QuestionWhat advice would you give to grandparents suddenly raising their grandchildren?Lauren Urban, LCSWLauren Urban is a licensed psychotherapist in Brooklyn, New York, with over 13 years of therapy experience working with children, families, couples, and individuals. She received her Masters in Social Work from Hunter College in 2006, and specializes in working with the LGBTQIA community and with clients in recovery or considering recovery for drug and alcohol use.
Licensed PsychotherapistMany grandparents end up as the main caregivers for their grandkids. I've worked with lots of families in this situation. It's a huge transition, no doubt about it. I'd say, first, find some support. Connect with other grandparents who are raising their grandkids. Share stories and advice. Also, think about seeing a counselor. This is emotionally taxing. You shouldn't handle it alone. Lastly, don't be shy asking your grandkids' parents for help sometimes. Like with discipline issues. You're new to this, so get their take when needed. I know it's not easy, but try to take it one day at a time. And know you're giving your grandkids an amazing gift.
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If you’re struggling to adjust to a new family structure, consider finding a therapist who specializes in family issues and relationships.Thanks
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Ultimately, there’s no “best” family structure or ideal way to raise a family. Family takes many forms, each with their own strengths and weaknesses, and the idea of “family” means different things to different people. The most important part of a family is the love and support they give each other—and any of the above structures can provide that!Thanks
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If you’re struggling to adjust to a new family structure, consider finding a therapist who specializes in family issues and relationships.Thanks
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- ↑ https://socialsci.libretexts.org/Bookshelves/Sociology/Introduction_to_Sociology/Sociology_(Boundless)/12%3A_Family/12.01%3A_Family/12.1C%3A_Family_Structures
- ↑ https://www.scoe.org/files/ccpc-family-structures.pdf
- ↑ https://socialsci.libretexts.org/Bookshelves/Sociology/Introduction_to_Sociology/Sociology_(Boundless)/12%3A_Family/12.01%3A_Family/12.1C%3A_Family_Structures
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4091994/
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4091994/
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2021/11/19/growing-share-of-childless-adults-in-u-s-dont-expect-to-ever-have-children/
- ↑ https://socialsci.libretexts.org/Bookshelves/Sociology/Introduction_to_Sociology/Sociology_(Boundless)/12%3A_Family/12.01%3A_Family/12.1C%3A_Family_Structures
- ↑ https://www.aamft.org/Consumer_Updates/grandparents.aspx
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201704/advantages-disadvantages-kids-in-polyamorous-families