Should I ask out my crush? Should I get to know him better first?

This discussion is for readers who took the Do I Like Him Quiz.
WikiSalamanderFlyer757
11/13/24 2:23pm
I've been in denial a little bit about liking a guy but this quiz helped me realize that I actually like him a lot! The thing is, we don't know each other super well. Should I just shoot my shot and ask him out or get to know him better first? How do I get closer to him and how do I ask him out?

WikiGiraffeSeeker585
11/13/24 3:53pm
I think it's better to get to know him first. It'll help you better realize if you're actually interested in a relationship with him or were just attracted to him on a surface level. Find excuses to strike up conversation with him and ask him questions about himself. Be an active listener and genuinely interested in what he has to say. Find common interests. You got this!
WikiStoatWatcher675
11/13/24 8:05pm
shoot ur shot
Anonymous WikiTapir
Anonymous WikiTapir
11/19/24 4:00am
As a girl, get to know him better. Then he'll be more likely to go out with you.
WikiValleyJumper556
11/21/24 11:56am
I like a boy but we are not that close, we are like friends but a little distant. And I don't know how to tell him that I like him?
WikiValleyJumper556
11/21/24 11:56am
I like a boy but we are not that close, we are like friends but a little distant. And I don't know how to tell him that I like him?
Anonymous WikiGiraffe
Anonymous WikiGiraffe
11/21/24 9:10pm
He just confessed and I have never thought about him like that before. I have trouble processing emotions and I don't know if I like him back. What do I tell him?
Anonymous WikiCloud
Anonymous WikiCloud
11/22/24 8:07pm
I met this guy and he isn't too attractive but he is SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO nice. I think I like him but IDK
Anonymous WikiCheetah
Anonymous WikiCheetah
11/23/24 12:40pm
They said i like the idea of him! And the idea of him doesint make me gag, i hate him and i gag when i think of him. He told me today it would feel like cheating if we liked each other, couse i liked his brother! He doesint know i still like his brother.
Anonymous WikiCheetah
Anonymous WikiCheetah
11/23/24 12:42pm
Shame, why did you take the quiz if you like him? there's no point then. Just curios, what was your results exactly?
Anonymous WikiFawn
Anonymous WikiFawn
11/24/24 3:34pm
I always get scared of rejection and my friends will hear anyone else got this??
Anonymous WikiZebra
Anonymous WikiZebra
11/30/24 2:13am
same! I don't mention my crush to my friends because idk it will just be awkward ig? idk!
Anonymous WikiDugong
Anonymous WikiDugong
12/12/24 11:36pm
I never mention it to my friends. Only my sister. They”lol tease me and will want to go tell him
Anonymous WikiGlade
Anonymous WikiGlade
11/29/24 4:51pm
My situation is complicated. I just got over a rejection, but I found myself staring at someone else. I've known him for a long time, and his jokes are hilarious. If you're in the same spot as me, tell your friends. Start a convo. Maybe he/she will like you back afterward. Just be yourself. Then ask them out.
Anonymous WikiFox
Anonymous WikiFox
11/30/24 12:56am
Ok, to start you should definitely get to know him better. You should as well as always start being friends, and see how he treat's you when you are his "friend". Even though you like him, you should as well as test the waters. Don't forget it is always for fun, unless you want it to be serious.
Anonymous WikiEmu
Anonymous WikiEmu
12/02/24 10:55pm
yesssss you shoot ur shot
Anonymous WikiGlade
Anonymous WikiGlade
12/02/24 10:58pm
I told him I liked him but he said he doesn't like me back.
Anonymous WikiDugong
Anonymous WikiDugong
12/12/24 11:37pm
I’m so sorry! Happens to the best of us. I’m sure he just couldn’t realize the real you
Anonymous WikiButterfly
Anonymous WikiButterfly
12/03/24 9:23pm
get to know him a bit better, get to be close friends, impress him no matter what, and that will make him ask YOU out!
WikiNarwhalWatcher792
12/05/24 4:04pm
I think I should try to talk to him
Anonymous WikiDugong
Anonymous WikiDugong
12/12/24 11:34pm
I do really like him, but I feel like he likes someone else. Maybe he just wants to be friends but I want to be more than that!!! People always say we look good together and I know he used to like me… There should be a quiz that’s like “does he like her” or “does he just wants to be friends. The suspense is killing me! Wish me luck ;)

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