So apparently I'm self-obsessed
This discussion is for readers who took the What's Your Red Flag Quiz.
My result said that I'm self-obsessed. But so what, is loving yourself really a red flag? It's probably better than most the other options. What did everyone else get?
Oof. Mine says that I'm too independent AKA I have commitment issues. I mean, that makes sense, I guess I just like things done in a specific way. Sometimes I know I get really caught up doing something on my own that I don't ask for help, and I know that's something I can get better at.
I think it's important that you at least recognize that some people think these traits are red flags. If you're aware of it, then it might be easier to catch it in the moment when it upsets someone.
I think it's important that you at least recognize that some people think these traits are red flags. If you're aware of it, then it might be easier to catch it in the moment when it upsets someone.
That’s so good your independent you can get things done yourself!
Same I also got that,tbh its true
GOT THE SAME THING…ITS JUST BECAUSE I WORK ON A FARM…(I THINK)
mine said "You love people (read: can’t be alone)" and it's......probably not wrong, loll. but it's a truth i wouold rather have not uncovered lol
same
same
Samee T^T
Also same, would not have liked to know that since I'm an introvert and was bragging as an idoitic kid that I didn't have any friends and was alone half the time. But yeah. I'm pretty chatty once I get to know people, and I was sooo much more depressed when I was alone so perhaps it's true that I love people, and shouldn't be alone so much..? IDK.
Also same, would not have liked to know that since I'm an introvert and was bragging as an idoitic kid that I didn't have any friends and was alone half the time. But yeah. I'm pretty chatty once I get to know people, and I was sooo much more depressed when I was alone so perhaps it's true that I love people, and shouldn't be alone so much..? IDK.
Me too
Same I got that
Sameeeee i do kinda agree tho:>
Sameeeee but i kinda agree with it :>
bruh same its half true cuz sometimes i need my space
That’s good that you love people you’d be an amazing friend family member or just someone known!
I got the same one! Its absolutely,positively,undissagreyably, right!!!
I think I need to take a chill pill cuz this quiz just called me ruthless. Maybe I'm just a bit more of a workaholic than I like to admit haha
omg same! lol. i mean, i love people and all, but sometimes some of my most important work needs to be done first before I take a well-deserved long break
Haha same here! Making my dreams come true brings the most meaning to my life.
Mine says ruthless to, but where I come from that pays out in the end.
omg mine also said i'm self-obsessed! this is my worst nightmare for real, lol. i'd rather have "can't be alone" or "commitment issues"" anyday. but i do think you're right OP self-love isn't inherently a red flag, just do what you're doing but maybe pause sometimes to ask if you're loving other people as much as yourself. maybe also ask why your prone to self-love so much--do you feel like you don't get it enough from other people? i think that's why i'm like this honestly
Mine 2 lol
dang. it gave me 'You love people (read: can’t be alone).' 😬 they ain't wrong 😅
i also got that, it definentaly is true
Mine said i need to let people in because I'm like Self-reliant and I apparently don't let people in.
Same
your ambtious (read: ruthless
It said i'm independent( read: commitment issues) untrue... kinda >_<
I am also self-obsessed! But I'm not rly like that
Mine says I'm ambitious.
Mine is Confident (Self obessed) I dont think I'm self obsessed bruh
This makes sense
mine said that I am way to independent
I got you love people. That is 1000000% me.
Im apparently obsessed with others... I'm not surprised I just want a partner to make me happy or someone to talk to all the time.. which is probably why I'm commenting on a WikiHow quiz... :0
Mine is ruthless
me too!
same here
Accurate! This is so true. My boyfriend and I aren’t really getting a lot right now. We’ve been together 3 months. I keep making so many mistakes. It’s true. All I think of are my own feelings.
Same
I got that I'm ambitious! I'm actually quite pleased with it honestly--Slytherin all the way!!
Same here I have commitment issues but like I have had some life issues.
So I think I get a pass.
So I think I get a pass.
mine said I have commitment issues,and that might be true SOMETIMES for like stuff I want/have to do like gaming and school work so yay,commitment issues,great...
mine says i cant be alone..... how is that bad
I got you love everyone and that's true I do I'm a very kind person but I also like being by myself.
mine said I have commitment issues,and that might be true SOMETIMES for like stuff I want/have to do like gaming and school work so yay,commitment issues,great...
Mine says i was independent, which is completly true.
Ambitious, I suppose that describes Me well enough.
I got you love people (read: can't be alone) That is true on a good way I always give people 2nd chances because I just can't help that I love everyone. But the negative thing is my love for "everyone" can get annoying sometimes I want us locked to the hip which my friends have told me before. Like I remember I few yrs ago I could not stand being alone I always had to be with someone or talking to someone and sometimes meant invading their personal life/space. I would call my friends or people I don't even talk anymore at 12:00 am or 3:00 am or 7:00 am just because I didn't want to be alone. Even though people loved that I loved them. The love that I gave them just showed that I was desperate for some type of companionship or something. Because one time I was following my bff the entire day because I didn't want to be lonely she told me "Go get a boyfriend or something" I was hurt but it was true I was clinging on to people and bad. Soon my parents noticed that, so they isolated me from my phone, TV etc. I took that time to realize how lonely I was and at the end of the day I realized sometimes I need time for myself and so do others. So gave people their space and that was when my friendships returned back and I lived a healthier life. I didn't change because of my results because this happened like 2 or 3 years ago I changed because there were times where people just didn't like my presence and it because of my clingyness. This is my story
Mine said that I love my friends too much and that I have a fear of abandonment. Like, Excuse me for loving my friends and family.
So I got that I’m self obsessed. I get that I care about myself but when has loving yourself been a crime? I’m not thinking about myself day and night, but I also don’t want to embarrass myself. I also didn’t like how it told me to get on a therapy thing, my mental health is fine, thank you very much, so that was a little offending. If I truly liked the guy I would go out of my way for him, not too busy daydreaming about myself. I know I might be a little preppy and all, but it’s called personality. But thanks for the quiz anyway.
It's not bad to love yourself I agree but there are times where you can put yourself in front in the which can be called self obsessed, But the positive word for it is confidence.
Mine said ruthless but I’m so happy I need to be ambitious to achieve what I want (I’m just not the type of person to maliciously hurt people, I could just care less about others actions)
Mine said independent (I don’t need a boy)
Mine is that "i love ppl/ i cant be alone" help
Apparently I love people and can't be alone ( which is true)
Um I got independent……. I’m dating someone and completely reliant on them. It also told me I should seek professional help😃
I also got "confident (read self-obsessed)". Btw I'm passing those quizzes just 4 fun. Don't really believe 'em, duh
I think being self obsessed is a good thing it means you know how to look after your self self care is the best care!
same!!!!! i do not think that its really a problem to be self-obsessed. is there anything wrong with loving the amazing, wonderful person that i am?!?
i got the same as you lol
lol I got that I love other people. haha is that a red flag? OH CRAP. is THAT why I'm single???
Nothing like me, (self obsessesed) I despise people who are that way. Ask anyone I know, they’ll tell you for sure.
Mine says that I love people lmao
Main said that my red flag is that I love people but actually I’m the most unsocial person in the world 😅😂
Mine said I can't be alone but I'm an ambivert so I can be alone
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