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They say that age is just a number, but that doesn't keep people from criticizing May-December relationships. The heart wants what the heart wants, though, and you can fall in love with the most unlikely person, even if that person is 10+ years older (or younger) than you. Can your relationship beat the odds and stand the test of time? Read on to find out how to make an age-gap relationship work, as well as explore the benefits—and challenges—of this type of romance.
Things You Should Know
- May-December relationships are relationships between two people who are at least 10 years apart in age.
- Make your May-December relationship work by sharing long-term goals early on, seeking out your common interests, and accepting your differences.
- Couples in May-December relationships might experience greater levels of trust and commitment and increased confidence compared to couples in other relationships.
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