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  • Question
    How do you tell if a man is attracted to you but hiding it?
    Candice Mostisser
    Candice Mostisser
    Dating Coach
    Candice Mostisser is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingman/wingwoman services, 1-on-1 coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. She specializes in coaching others on best practices and strategies to succeed on first dates and in the online dating world.
    Candice Mostisser
    Dating Coach
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    If a guy sits with his knees pointed towards you when you two are sitting at a table, that may be a subtle indicator he likes you. Also, if he generally seems excited and happy to talk to you, this is a good sign!
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    Does he secretly have a crush on me?
    Candice Mostisser
    Candice Mostisser
    Dating Coach
    Candice Mostisser is a Dating Coach for NYC Wingwoman LLC, a date coaching service based in New York City. 'NYC Wingwoman' offers matchmaking, wingman/wingwoman services, 1-on-1 coaching, and intensive weekend bootcamps. She specializes in coaching others on best practices and strategies to succeed on first dates and in the online dating world.
    Candice Mostisser
    Dating Coach
    Expert Answer
    Does he regularly strike up conversations or message you without being prompted? If so, the answer may be yes!
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    I’m thirteen, if I sit on my boyfriend's lap, is that seen as being sexual? (We are both in the same school.)
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    Some people may view it as sexual if you sit on his lap. While you don't need to let other people's opinions shape your behavior, it can also be hard to deal with people making rude comments to you. Think about what you really want before you make public displays of affection, then make choices that are right for you.
  • Question
    How long would it take for them to admit they like you?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    They might not ever admit that they like you because they could be too afraid. If you like them and think they like you, go ahead and ask them out.
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    There is this boy in a different class and I really fancy him! What should I do?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    If you think he likes you, go ahead and ask him out. Use the tips above to figure out if he might be interested.
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    He usually takes short glances at me. Does he like me?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    This could mean that he likes you. Watch for other signs that he might be into you to be sure.
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    How do you tell if he likes you over sending texts?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    He'll likely be texting you often and will probably send quick replies. Additionally, he'll initiate conversations and send texts that are longer than 1 word.
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    My crush is dating my best friend, and he still messes with me and broke up with my friend. What should I do?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    While you might like him a lot, this guy isn't being fair to you or your friend. If he's going behind your friend's back with you, that's a sign that he isn't trustworthy. It's probably best that you stop spending time with him. This might hurt, but you will find a better crush!
  • Question
    How can I stay calm and wait for him to make the first move?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
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    You don't need to wait for him to make the first move. If you think he likes you, go ahead and ask him out.
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    I can’t tell if I’m in his friend zone area or more than friends. Should I keep my distance or become closer?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    You might be able to figure out if he likes you if you get closer to him. However, this might also cause you to get your heart broken. Only you can decide what's right for you.
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    Is it a sign for them randomly complimenting me? My crush does all the time and he one time hurt me by accident and kept on asking if I was ok. Would this be a sign as a crush?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    This might mean that he likes you. It's also possible that he's just a nice person. Pay attention to how he acts around other people. Additionally, look for other signs that he likes you.
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    What does it mean if he starts a conversation with me when there are other girls around or if there is no one else around?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    If he's starting conversations with you, he might like you. Look for other signs that he likes you to be sure.
  • Question
    Will he say he likes another girl?
    Danielle Husband
    Danielle Husband
    Community Answer
    This likely means he likes her. He may be hoping that you have inside knowledge about her. That might hurt, but you should feel better soon.
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    How do you know if a guy has a secret crush on you?
    Drew Hawkins1
    Drew Hawkins1
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    There are definitely some tell-tale signs you can look for to try to figure out if a guy secretly likes you. One of the biggest clues could be his body language. Watch his face when you walk into the room to see if he smiles. If he likes you, he'll probably be super excited to see you. Prolonged eye contact can be a sign that he’s into you. Next time you see him, catch his gaze and see if he stares back or looks away. If he keeps looking, he may have a crush on you. Along the same lines, you might be able to catch him staring at you when he thinks you aren't looking. Try to catch him by looking over at him suddenly. You could also ask a friend to keep an eye out and watch whether or not he's checking you out when you aren't looking. If a guy likes you, it may not be too difficult to tell!
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    How do you know if a guy secretly likes you through text?
    Drew Hawkins1
    Drew Hawkins1
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    There are a couple of clues you can look for to figure out if a guy likes you when he's texting you. For starters, if he's into you, he may try to initiate he conversation more often because he wants to talk to you. For instance, he might just text you out of the blue to chat, see what you're up to, or even ask to hang out. He may also try to drop hints such as mentioning that he's single. It could be his way of letting you know that he's available just in case you might be interested in him. Additionally, if he likes you, he might not be able to resist giving you compliments. Try to pay attention to how much he compliments you versus how much he compliments other people. If he seems to do it more often to you, it could be a sign that he's into you!
  • Question
    How do guys hint that they like you?
    Drew Hawkins1
    Drew Hawkins1
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    Guys may not always be so obvious about their feelings, but if they like someone, they'll often drop hints, sometimes without even realizing it! For instance, you may notice that he’s always there to help you, whether it’s with advice or getting something done. If he seems to be offering to help you much more than he offers to help other people, it could be his way of hinting that he's into you. Another big clue is that he may seem to remember everything you tell him. While it's hard for anyone to remember a ton of details about someone, if a guy seems to recall specific things you've told him in previous conversations, it could be because he likes you and is hinting that you're important to him. Of course, there are more obvious hints. For instance, if he seems to like or respond to almost all of your social media posts, it could be a sign that he likes you and wants you to notice it.
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