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It feels amazing to get sexual attention from your boyfriend, no matter how long you’ve been dating. You might be at a point in your relationship where you’re looking for new and exciting ways to make him focus on you and reignite that spark when you’re in the mood. There are a ton of fresh and easy ways to pique his interest (and other things) from subtle scents and sexy looks to naughty whispers and dirty dancing. Read on for 13 everyday moves you can make to grab your boyfriend’s attention, turn him on, and feel sexy and empowered while you do it.
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QuestionHow can I seduce him instantly?Joshua PompeyJoshua Pompey is a Relationship Expert and Founder of Next Evolution Matchmaking (NEM) based in New York City, NY. With over 15 years in the industry, Joshua helps his clients navigate online dating and has a success rate of over 99%. His work has been featured in CNBC, Good Morning America, Wired, and Refinery29 and he has been referred to as the best online dater in the world.
Relationship ExpertDress up! Pick out a sharp-looking outfit or something a little bit on the sexier side. Feel free to jazz up your hair and makeup, too.
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Only do things you’re comfortable with to grab his attention. If you’re hesitant about the more upfront or sexual options and the subtle cues aren’t working, start a conversation with him about your wants and needs when it comes to sexual attention.Thanks
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If you and your boyfriend have not had sex yet, check in with him and yourself to make sure you’re both ready to make that jump. You’ll have more fun trying to get his attention when you know you’ll both enjoy the outcome.Thanks
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- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/myths-desire/201812/5-ways-help-man-feel-desired
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/articles/200403/the-art-the-compliment
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/click-here-happiness/202009/what-are-the-5-love-languages-definition-and-examples
- ↑ Joshua Pompey. Relationship Expert. Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.
- ↑ Joshua Pompey. Relationship Expert. Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-modern-heart/201905/4-reasons-why-baby-talk-is-good-for-couples
- ↑ https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/nonverbal-communication.htm
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/the-freedom-change/201506/couples-101-the-emotional-dance-intimacy
- ↑ https://www.southuniversity.edu/news-and-blogs/2016/08/the-psychology-behind-love-and-romance-70700
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