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Clubs are a great place to meet people because most people who go there are expecting to be social. It can be a little challenging to get to know someone in such a loud, crowded environment, but it's definitely possible! If you meet a girl you want to get to know better, approach her in a casual, friendly way. Then, look for cues around you that you can use to spark up a conversation.
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If the girl you're talking to looks bored, won't make eye contact, starts checking her phone, or gives you short answers, she might not be interested in talking. Say something like, "Nice meeting you!" and move on.[13]Thanks
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/cutting-edge-leadership/201404/5-secret-powers-eye-contact
- ↑ David Kornel Z. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 January 2020.
- ↑ David Kornel Z. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 January 2020.
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5580611/
- ↑ Maria Avgitidis. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ David Kornel Z. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 24 January 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/evidence-based-living/202109/the-psychology-compliments-nice-word-goes-long-way
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/skinny-revisited/201212/why-you-date-someone-1
- ↑ Maria Avgitidis. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201712/10-must-know-tips-making-better-conversations
- ↑ Maria Avgitidis. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ Maria Avgitidis. Dating Coach. Expert Interview. 20 December 2019.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201712/10-must-know-tips-making-better-conversations