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If you’ve been on the dating scene for a while, you may be getting tired of the immaturity of people your own age. Setting your sights on an older man might seem like a logical next step, but it’s important to weigh the pros and the cons before you pursue an age gap relationship. Read through these benefits and drawbacks of dating an older man to make the decision that’s right for you and your love life.
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- Step back. Take off your rose colored glasses. Write down the pros and cons, because the cons are not going to change. If the relationship makes you smile more often than you frown, then have a beautiful life!
- Baggage isn't always a bad thing, and older or younger partners can come with baggage. As long as they have both gotten past it, that's what counts.
References
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/why-bad-looks-good/201908/why-many-young-women-prefer-to-date-older-men
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/older-men-dating-younger-women
- ↑ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6785043/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/older-men-dating-younger-women
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/older-men-dating-younger-women
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/za/blog/divorce-course/202008/dating-again-after-divorce
- ↑ https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/age-difference-in-relationships
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/better-divorce/202205/how-and-when-introduce-your-new-partner-your-kids
- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
- ↑ https://psychcentral.com/relationships/age-difference-in-relationships/
- ↑ Erika Kaplan. Matchmaker. Expert Interview. 1 October 2020.
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/202104/how-much-does-age-matter-in-relationship
- ↑ https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/life-is-a-trip/202403/what-slow-travel-is-and-why-you-should-try-it