This quiz told me to break up. What do you think?
This discussion is for readers who took the Should We Break Up Quiz.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. I thought he was the perfect guy for me but this quiz told me to break up. I thought about it more and realized I'm often the only one putting effort into planning dates and when I tell him about my feelings he's really dismissive. Should I break up with him?
If things are going well outside of him not putting equal effort into dates and being dismissive about your feelings, you could try talking to him about things first. And then if he doesn't change then you could break up with him
Talking sounds great but sometimes people need more of a wake up call than that. This happened to me too so I just stopped planning dates and when my bf realized we weren't doing anything unless I initiated, he finally understood why I was upset with him. Then he apologized and changed his behavior and we're going strong!
The quiz said I don't need to break up. Whew, crisis averted.
You should not break up with him
I think you should stop initiating everything and let him take the lead role as a man. Initiate things like his birthday planning and special events(like just mention them to him) If he doesn’t notice the absence of your presence due to his lack of being proactive, then you really should consider whether you can live with this long term or want to be with a man that leads in this type of situation.
I thought he was the perfect guy always giving me attention and prioritising me i wasn't sure about him I didn't knew if I was ready for a relationship but then when I saw him putting so much effort i thought maybe he is the one . But now things have changed he is okay without talking to me and I am the one who is waiting for him . Whenever I tell him what's bothering me he acts like I am arguing and pleads me to stop it's like I am torturing him . He doesn't understand the boundary I had setup and often break it when I confront he gets angry starts getting emotional and hangs up Stops seeing my texts. I need to talk to someone when I am low I need to tell how I feel it gets really difficult for me to manage my emotions alone I have told him but yet he does the same m at the end of the day I call him back to back until I get tired and then several hours later when I am okay he calls me back and i forgive him with hope that he will eventually realise where he is wrong but it's like a cycle now it keeps on happening the same thing back to back. He says he loves me he does for me a lot of things but that's not enough.i want him to understand . What should I do ?
omg!!, I'm so with you in this one, like how can they even do this to us for hours? :(
Awww I would give it some time things could change
Well, if he makes u feel good, good. Bad, bad. You choose your future. Make it count. Think, do you want him for the rest of ur life??
Things will get better if you make them. If he cares, he will show u.
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