How to Make a Sagittarius Man Miss You Like Crazy

Co-authored by Joshua Pompey and Madeleine Criglow

Last Updated: July 26, 2024 References

Sagittarius men are some of the most adventurous people of the Zodiac. Their spontaneous and thrill-seeking natures make them particularly intriguing partners, but it can be difficult to get these guys to miss you. To get a Sagittarius to wish you were by their side, you'll have to show him that you're just as fun-loving and independent as him. For tips on how to do that and more, read on.

The Best Ways to Make a Sagittarius Man Miss You

Text him flirty and funny messages.
Be mysterious and keep a busy schedule so he has to work to get to know you.
Make spontaneous plans to keep him guessing.
Be confident, optimistic, and independent to attract his interest.

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Send bold and flirty texts.

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A Sagittarius is daring and fearless in love and relationships. He'll appreciate someone who's flirtatious and able to express that in fun and interesting ways. Text him flirty texts throughout the day, send over funny memes that remind him of you and tease him a bit in the caption, and even send cute selfies to show him that he's on your mind. He'll miss spending time with such a fun and exuberant individual.^{[1]
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- Text him a flirty text like, "Been thinking about your smile all day. How's life treating you today?"
- Send over a funny GIF of his favorite TV character with the caption, "This reminded me of something you would do."
- Throw on your favorite outfit and take a few cute selfies. Text him your favorite one with the caption, "Thought you might like my outfit :) What're you up to?"

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Add some mystery to your conversations.

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This will leave him wanting more. Reveal details about yourself incrementally and give him space to ask questions when you're out together or texting. This will keep him thinking about you when you're apart, as he'll see you as a complex and challenging person to get to know. A Sagittarius will love that about you.^{[2]
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- If he asks you what you were up to last night and you went to see your favorite band, you might say, "I was at a show with some friends." It'll leave him wondering what band you saw, and he'll likely text you with follow-up questions.

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Show off your distinct fashion sense.

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A Sagittarius guy has an eye for style and aesthetics. Pick outfits that show off your unique sense of style.^{[3]
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Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.} With a Sagittarius guy, you don't have to worry about looking understated. Instead, pick vibrant colors that make you feel super attractive or fun prints and designs that show off your interesting taste. A nice cologne or perfume can also enhance your look and make you super attractive to a Sagittarius guy.^{[4]
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- You don't have to dress a certain way to get a Sagittarius man to miss you. Wear things that make you feel good about yourself and he'll want to hang out with you again no matter what you're wearing.

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Be less available to him.

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As the archer of the Zodiac, Sagittarius men enjoy the pursuit. Their interests lie in going after what they want, especially if it's challenging. Appeal to this side of him by making it a challenge to get a spot on your busy schedule. Instead of always making plans with him, make fun plans with your friends and family. Keep your engagements even if it means you're not able to hang out with him for a few days. This will make him see you as a busy and interesting person with an exclusive schedule. He'll be begging to hang out in no time.^{[5]
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- When you're out having fun with your friends and family, try not to text this Sagittarius guy. Instead, keep him waiting and fill him in on all the cool things you've been doing once you get home.^{[6]
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Embrace spontaneity and fun.

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Do so when you’re with him and when you’re apart. If there's any sign that will be down to go on a spontaneous road trip or attend a last-minute concert, it's a Sagittarius. They get bored easily and don't enjoy monotony. Keep him missing you by changing things up when he least expects it.^{[7]
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- Did you have dinner plans for tomorrow? Ask if he'd rather check out a cool street fair happening in your neighborhood instead.

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Take interesting trips.

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No sign likes to travel more than a Sagittarius. When you're together and even when you're apart, adopt a more travel-oriented lifestyle. If your schedule doesn't allow for much travel, explore the city you live in by spending time in different neighborhoods and trying out new restaurants. He'll see you as a like-minded person and will really miss you when you're out of town or out exploring.^{[8]
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- Take fun solo trips to the beach or the forest on the weekends.
- Suggest the two of you go on a date in the next city over.
- Plan a getaway with friends and family to show him that you're more than capable of leaving town just like him.

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Live in the moment.

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When you're together, don't be so concerned about making more plans. Instead, stay focused on what you're up to in that moment. A Sagittarius doesn't like to feel tied down in life and prefers to take things day by day. If you show him that you're able to live that lifestyle with him, he'll want you around more and will likely ask to see you again.^{[9]
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- If you just started seeing each other, opt-out of asking him to a concert that's a month away.
- Focus on making fun memories when you spend time together. Stay invested in your conversations, give your full attention to the movies you watch together, and be open to spur-of-the-moment plans. A Sagittarius will respond super well to your ability to stay in the present.

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Maintain a positive outlook.

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A Sagittarius man will only miss someone that shares his upbeat attitude. A Sagittarius doesn't let life's setbacks get them down. Try to display a similarly glass-half-full attitude in your conversations.^{[10]
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Expert Interview. 27 November 2019.} He'll appreciate being around a like-minded person and will crave your positive outlook when you're not together.^{[11]
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- If things don't go as planned on a date with him, show that you're able to roll with the punches. For example, maybe you accidentally bought tickets to the wrong movie. Take it as an opportunity to see a new and different film and go anyway!
- You can be honest if you're not having a good week and are feeling a little bummed. Just try not to focus too much on the negative or spend too many of your conversations complaining.

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Be confident.

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Sagittarius are drawn to self-assured people that speak their minds. Show off your own ability to do this by having faith in yourself when you're out and about together or texting. Keep your head held high, share your opinions freely, and speak with assurance. Though it can be difficult, try your best not to doubt yourself or put yourself down in front of him. He'll miss being around someone with so much faith in themselves.^{[12]
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- It can be hard to be confident if you're not feeling it on the inside. To help build your self-esteem, try repeating positive statements in your head anytime you're feeling down. You might try, "I am a talented and capable person" or "I am worthy of love and attention."
- You can also try doing small things to boost your confidence, like getting a new haircut or wearing a cool outfit.^{[13]
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Remain independent.

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A Sagittarius needs a lot of freedom. They'll only miss someone who feels the same way. Show him just that by living a joyfully independent lifestyle. Whatever interests you in life, go for it boldly and without fear. This Sagittarius man will be in awe of your charisma and will want to be by your side all of the time.^{[14]
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- Follow your dreams by taking classes that really interest you or making the art that you love and selling it online.
- Spend your free time practicing your hobbies like drumming or playing basketball.
- Talk freely about all the cool things you do when you meet up with this Sagittarius guy. Rather than being intimidated, he'll be impressed and excited to be around a fellow thrill-seeker.

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Avoid being possessive.

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A Sagittarius needs to feel free, even in a committed relationship. Though they're more than capable of committing, they still need a degree of space to thrive and feel like themselves. Trust that your Sagittarius is committed to you if you're in a monogamous relationship. Your faith in him will mean a lot and he'll miss being with such an easygoing and laidback person when you're not around.^{[15]
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- If the Sagittarius guy you're seeing does give you a reason not to trust him, approach the conversation directly and respectfully. A Sagittarius is usually more than happy to have an honest discussion, and they'll likely tell you the truth about what's going on.

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